tlovemoney
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I am not sure if I should react to this or not....I will admit I would like to react to it somehow.......
pleasHi. I thought about calling, but this is a kind of awkward topic, so I thought an email would be easier. I apologize if this comes off as less personal than a phone call.
So...I did get your answering machine message and it was very sweet of you to see if I was free on Valentine's Day. I was actually on retreat, which was such a good thing for me.
Anyway, I know I should have called to tell you this before, but I really didn't know how to explain. Retreat aside, I was interested in meeting you, but my dilemma is this: Even with our rather technologically challenged first phone call, I would say that it appeared as though there might be some potential with you. That said, I have begun talking to another man and there seems to be potential for a good match there as well. It's not yet serious and I don't know where it's going, but I am the type who prefers to focus on one relationship at a time. Since I "met" him first, I feel as though I should pursue that relationship first. While I am ever hopeful that the next relationship will be "the one", I realize that I only have a limited time to pursue the options that internet dating poses. So, I would like to know if I have your permission to hold onto your phone number - and if you would be open to restarting our conversation if at some point I am available and you are available to continue our conversation? I apologize again for not responding to your phone call earlier, but I really did need the time to sort out for myself how to handle this situation.
e read!
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pleasHi. I thought about calling, but this is a kind of awkward topic, so I thought an email would be easier. I apologize if this comes off as less personal than a phone call.
So...I did get your answering machine message and it was very sweet of you to see if I was free on Valentine's Day. I was actually on retreat, which was such a good thing for me.
Anyway, I know I should have called to tell you this before, but I really didn't know how to explain. Retreat aside, I was interested in meeting you, but my dilemma is this: Even with our rather technologically challenged first phone call, I would say that it appeared as though there might be some potential with you. That said, I have begun talking to another man and there seems to be potential for a good match there as well. It's not yet serious and I don't know where it's going, but I am the type who prefers to focus on one relationship at a time. Since I "met" him first, I feel as though I should pursue that relationship first. While I am ever hopeful that the next relationship will be "the one", I realize that I only have a limited time to pursue the options that internet dating poses. So, I would like to know if I have your permission to hold onto your phone number - and if you would be open to restarting our conversation if at some point I am available and you are available to continue our conversation? I apologize again for not responding to your phone call earlier, but I really did need the time to sort out for myself how to handle this situation.
e read!
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