"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Luveno

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The great thing about hotornot is how streamlined it is.

You see a picture. There's a few words but that's not important. What's important is how they look for now.

If you like them you click yes. If not, click no.
Then they do the same. If you both click yes, you can send notes to each other.

That way, people you don't want to talk to cannot message you. So, no fatties bothering you! It's great.

Based on personal experience, the hottest girls on the net traverse hotornot. All other "dating " sites are for fat women with kids.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Woog

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Damn I knew it was too good to be true. I had a similar experienced, and stopped after her 2nd e-mail.

Here's what she wrote:

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Hey there, thanks for getting in touch! So how is your Thursday going? Just
another fun work day for me! :) A bit about me....I'm a Chicago woman, who
moved to the Seattle area for my job (sales) and I officially know 0 people.
I never imagined a change like this would be so hard and lonely to say the
least. I definitely want to meet up with you soon if you're down! According
to friendster, I live close by so we could really meet whenever you want.
GREAT NEWS (if you're a baseball fan) my boss gave me 2 tickets to the
mariners/orioles game for the 14th...it's at 7:05PM. Care to come with
me???

I posted A LOT more pics (as I said I'd give you!) on my newest personal,
some are topless but NOT bottomless but they're at
http://www.matchinglust.com/kate00 My profile is listed in that site under
"BackSideBabe". I wanted to post my personal info (i.e. phone # and my
personal email address) there for 3 real simple reasons. 1) It's DISCREET!
2) I never have to worry about being contacted by children since only adults
are allowed in the site and 3) I know all the replies I receive are genuine.
I've met 3 people off of this site, and it's truly made me feel safe. I had
a nightmare of an experience in the past that I don't want to happen again.
Thats all I've got to say right now, let's just plan on meeting soon! Cause
you know what that means... ;)
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It sounded too fishy.
 

RBB

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Yeah what Woog said. 2nd e-mail and I backed off. Too fishy.

I'll check out hotornot but not hoping for much. I'm gonna bank all my money on the field and stop this playing around on the internet. Can't wait to get to the US. Only 2 more sleeps.

*Smiled at 2 UG3's lastnight at the club. One looked away. :p And the other waved! I didn't approach. HAHAHAHAH. I'm still WBAFC. But confidence building, I guess.

Cali, here I come!!
 
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