"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Internet approaching

ntdawg

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Hey Ive decided to give the online dating thing a go.

Does anyone have any witty, unusual, get her interest and give her a hook kind of approach that they can share.

I imagine that good looking girls must get inundated with emails from guys. Any tips to making that point of difference and getting a reply.

How may emails do you normally send before you ask to meet in person or go for the number close?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tomatoes

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Internet dating doesnt work. Read up on real DJ ways and put them in practice.....I recommend one of the boot camps. I think shezz is starting another one soon.
 

ntdawg

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The more chicks that you can meet the better.

I'm not suggesting for a minute that going online is a replacement to persuing women in real life.

But who goes out 7 days a week? It could be a good supplement so that you can meet women on the quiter days of the week. Monday and Tuesday for example.
 
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