"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Internet approaching

ntdawg

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Hey Ive decided to give the online dating thing a go.

Does anyone have any witty, unusual, get her interest and give her a hook kind of approach that they can share.

I imagine that good looking girls must get inundated with emails from guys. Any tips to making that point of difference and getting a reply.

How may emails do you normally send before you ask to meet in person or go for the number close?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tomatoes

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Internet dating doesnt work. Read up on real DJ ways and put them in practice.....I recommend one of the boot camps. I think shezz is starting another one soon.
 

ntdawg

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The more chicks that you can meet the better.

I'm not suggesting for a minute that going online is a replacement to persuing women in real life.

But who goes out 7 days a week? It could be a good supplement so that you can meet women on the quiter days of the week. Monday and Tuesday for example.
 
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