"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Who Dares Win

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I dont need any internation day for whatever cathegory I fit in, inferiors beasts need to gather and hunt in large groups....eagles fly alone.

ps. stop wasting time with eyebrolling, he is a stereotypical character like those fat black women in movies shouting left and right while looking for reasons to be "offended".
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Black Widow Void

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“Baggage” and “victim-hood” are identities that people choose to fashion or choose to disrobe.

You have a choice; you can choose to define yourself in terms of your own standards… or you can choose to be ‘hostage’ to outdated cultures and attitudes.

If you’re an adult, then you can choose to make our own world. For instance; at my age, I’m no longer a prime employment candidate (and as a result, have missed a few potential opportunities) . Does one tread water and cry “victim” or does one swim forward to another opportunity. I chose the latter.

I’m not discounting a history of inequality. However, this isn't the past. It’s the present.
If you prefer to be coddled, please let me know and per the role you have chosen, I will oblige; no longer viewing you as an equal.
 

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“Baggage” and “victim-hood” are identities that people choose to fashion or choose to disrobe.

You have a choice; you can choose to define yourself in terms of your own standards… or you can choose to be ‘hostage’ to outdated cultures and attitudes.

If you’re an adult, then you can choose to make our own world. For instance; at my age, I’m no longer a prime employment candidate (and as a result, have missed a few potential opportunities) . Does one tread water and cry “victim” or does one swim forward to another opportunity. I chose the latter.

I’m not discounting a history of inequality. However, this isn't the past. It’s the present.
If you prefer to be coddled, please let me know and per the role you have chosen, I will oblige; no longer viewing you as an equal.
You don't get where I'm coming from at all, and you don't seem to be open to even remotely trying to understand my perspective. Which is something that black people are used to unfortunately. You're talking to me in a way that is dismissive. That's fine though, we can just agree to disagree because we will never see eye to eye. To go back and forth would be pointless. I will let this thread go back to to it's original subject
 

Black Widow Void

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You don't get where I'm coming from at all, and you don't seem to be open to even remotely trying to understand my perspective. Which is something that black people are used to unfortunately. You're talking to me in a way that is dismissive. That's fine though, we can just agree to disagree because we will never see eye to eye. To go back and forth would be pointless. I will let this thread go back to to it's original subject
Agree to disagree sounds like a mature gentleman's agreement.
Cheers!
 

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ps. stop wasting time with eyebrolling, he is a stereotypical character like those fat black women in movies shouting left and right while looking for reasons to be "offended".
Mediocrity offends me. Mediocre ass men spend their time on the internet complaining about women, gays, and people of color. Don’t be a hypocrite.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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EyeBRollin

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“Baggage” and “victim-hood” are identities that people choose to fashion or choose to disrobe.

You have a choice; you can choose to define yourself in terms of your own standards… or you can choose to be ‘hostage’ to outdated cultures and attitudes.

If you’re an adult, then you can choose to make our own world. For instance; at my age, I’m no longer a prime employment candidate (and as a result, have missed a few potential opportunities) . Does one tread water and cry “victim” or does one swim forward to another opportunity. I chose the latter.
Isn’t this ironic? No doubt your missed opportunities are attributed to women, gays, and people of color.. not your own shortcomings. Yet this is a post about “victimhood.”
 

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Dangit. This is my second thread this weak to get knocked off the original topic! Now mods are going to close it too. Guys, go make your own thread.
 

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Dangit. This is my second thread this weak to get knocked off the original topic! Now mods are going to close it too. Guys, go make your own thread.
If somebody who's not black, starts bringing up black people, in a thread that's not even about black people, I will speak my mind everytime. You could have told him to stay on the subject of international mens day, but you liked and amplified because his theory on gays, women and blacks fit a narrative you approved of

And I like you redskin so this is not an attack on you, but you're partly to blame also
 
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If somebody who's not black, starts bringing up black people, in a thread that's not even about black people, I will speak my mind everytime. You could have told him to stay on the subject of international mens day, but you liked and amplified because his theory on gays, women and blacks fit a narrative you approved of
This. Threads with complaints are fine but these threads someone always seems to find a way to bring up black people, gay people, and women.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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