"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Intern being very flirty

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She's barely legal college girl and kinda cute. At first I didn't pay much attention to her, but since she's near my cubical, she's been IMing and talking nonstop, always giggling and smiling at what I say. It's getting harder not to go for it, but I've always heard that dipping your pen in the company ink leads to bad things.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She's just an intern. Won't she be gone in August? Put the screws to her before she goes back to school and has train run on her at the first frat party of the year.
 
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It's weird, I don't feel pressured when talking to her as I do with most girls here plus she is more of the geeky type (way more than me). I sent out hints to have lunch together though not very successful, though I plan to ask tomorrow if she's planning anything this weekend. I feel like an AFC but I don't care, I'm going with my gut on this.

Any other tips or advice on picking up an intern girl?
 
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Haha. Dont worry if she's a coworker. You're already showing signs that you're gonna f.uck this up so coworker or not, you're gonna blow it.
1. Having the first date on a weekend is the biggest no-no. You're a fun busy guy so you must have better things to do on a weekend... or is she the best thing you've got going on in your life right now?

2. You said "its getting harder not to go for it", that means she's really getting to you. I smell a oneitits coming.

3. "You don't feel pressured to talk to her like most other girls". Thats how it starts, right now her interest level is probably high, and yours is starting to grow. Pretty soon your interest will be so big that it will make her lose hers.
PS. NEVER feel pressure to talk to a girl. Do it because you feel like having fun. You never feel pressured to have fun right?

4. You say you already feel like an AFC. At least you recognize it, enough said.
 
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Thanks for the pep talk :up: You're a very positive thinker.

Seriously though, if she's not into me, I don't care. I was thinking weekend date cause I'm usually tired after work. No oneitis, I was trying to set up a second date with an asian girl but she never picked up the damn phone. Her loss.

I'll ask anyways and update with results.

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Haha. Dont worry if she's a coworker. You're already showing signs that you're gonna f.uck this up so coworker or not, you're gonna blow it.
1. Having the first date on a weekend is the biggest no-no. You're a fun busy guy so you must have better things to do on a weekend... or is she the best thing you've got going on in your life right now?

2. You said "its getting harder not to go for it", that means she's really getting to you. I smell a oneitits coming.

3. "You don't feel pressured to talk to her like most other girls". Thats how it starts, right now her interest level is probably high, and yours is starting to grow. Pretty soon your interest will be so big that it will make her lose hers.
PS. NEVER feel pressure to talk to a girl. Do it because you feel like having fun. You never feel pressured to have fun right?

4. You say you already feel like an AFC. At least you recognize it, enough said.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Well apparently she wasn't wild about going to see a movie with me, shame. When I asked if she was doing anything this weekend, she said "not sure", then I offered to see the movie I was already planning to see, but she declined saying she would rather do boring stuff. I negged her telling her to have a nice boring weekend in a playful tone.

It's still fun to talk with her, less drama around the office.
 
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