"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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happyman2012

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Just wondering how other people handle it when a girl/girlfriend interogates you.

I have been with my girlfriend for about year and a half and she shows all the signs of high interest. She is definetly not cheating on me I'll just throw that out there.

We were texting today wilst she was at work:

Her: "Soo what you upto? xxx"
Me: "just off to the garage xx"

(For people in the US its like a gas station I get my gas card topped up there.)

Her: "Which one and why???"

(no kisses and it seemed very demanding compared to how she texts when her hamster isnt spinning)

Me: "am I being interogated?"

Her: "No just tell me"

Me: "No haha, not when you go all inspector cluso on me. You talk to me right and dont demand information. You need to get a grip"

Her: "Hmmmmm"

I just ignored her from then.

Did I handle this right? I have no problem telling her what I'm upto, but only if she asks in a right way. I dont feel its showing me respect when she comes accross the way she does.

How would YOU deal with a situation like this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i would have avoided the 'you need to get a grip'. unless you enjoy arguments.

i would have just either given her a sarcastic response (to rent a video) or ignored her if it really bothered me.
 
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Cheers guys.

I am naturally ****y and funny but because Ive been with her for year and a half and do have feelings for her sometimes I forget to be C+F and sarcastic in these type of situations and get abit annoyed.

Always learning

Cheers
 
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Yeah just don't entertain the question. What are you, on trial??? Hell no:


happyman2012 said:
Her: "Soo what you upto? xxx"
You: "just off to the garage xx"

Her: "Which one and why???"

You: ''the one with gas, for....gas''
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That's it. You chuck the phone on the passenger seat, crank up your music and you go to wherever the hell you need to go. If she tries to continue the confrontation at home, definitely begin to look for a way out, this is a red flag the size of King King's cape.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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