"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BxPrince24

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Well after that last talk, she, the girl I went out with,wanted to meet up with me today. So I met up with her and we went to an art store then I took her back to my dorm and we watched a movie, then we went to the library, then I left.

So today in more detail. She was all over me, like twice as much as the first time we went out. She was playing around with my hands, feeling around my fingertips, resting on me when we were on the train, etc...

So I brought her back to my dorm to watch The Ring 2. We laid together in a spooning position. I started kissing her on her neck and nibbling on her ear, she liked that, i could tell from her reaction. We continued to watch the movie and then she ended up on top of me, then she started nibbling my ear and playing around with my tank top.

While she was doing all of that I was slowly massaging her body with my hands. I lifted up her shirt a little so that her lower back was exposed and I ran my fingertips accross her lower back and when I hit certain areas I could feel her body move into me and she would smile with her eyes closed.

We continued watching the movie, feeling on eachother and whatnot. Movie finishes, we talk about it a little and then I go to kiss her. I don't know, I think my lips were dry even though I had put on chap stick about an hour before, but it wasn't how I wanted it to turn out.

I believe she was going for a french kiss aswell, because I felt her tongue run across my lips about twice but then she pulled back. And sat on top of me in the cowgirl position and gazed at me so I joked around with her, etc... then we got ready 2 go to the library. She was still pretty much all over me. Then I left, giving her a kiss goodbye ( just a peck on the lips though, I need more practice with kissing.)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You are overanalyzing this man.
 

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what's the point of this story? You got the girl, what's the problem?
 

BxPrince24

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I'm not looking into anything, just telling how the day went, because in my previous thread, there were some doubts about me and her. The only thing I'm saying is that I need some work with kissing and that I didn't crash and burn with her.
 

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Well... I'm also thinking that my fears are coming true. It's probably just nervousness from this being my first relationship. But I fear that I'm gonna now be entitled to do things such as calling (I'm not a phone person). I don't know, but I know that I'm nervous.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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