"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BxPrince24

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Well after that last talk, she, the girl I went out with,wanted to meet up with me today. So I met up with her and we went to an art store then I took her back to my dorm and we watched a movie, then we went to the library, then I left.

So today in more detail. She was all over me, like twice as much as the first time we went out. She was playing around with my hands, feeling around my fingertips, resting on me when we were on the train, etc...

So I brought her back to my dorm to watch The Ring 2. We laid together in a spooning position. I started kissing her on her neck and nibbling on her ear, she liked that, i could tell from her reaction. We continued to watch the movie and then she ended up on top of me, then she started nibbling my ear and playing around with my tank top.

While she was doing all of that I was slowly massaging her body with my hands. I lifted up her shirt a little so that her lower back was exposed and I ran my fingertips accross her lower back and when I hit certain areas I could feel her body move into me and she would smile with her eyes closed.

We continued watching the movie, feeling on eachother and whatnot. Movie finishes, we talk about it a little and then I go to kiss her. I don't know, I think my lips were dry even though I had put on chap stick about an hour before, but it wasn't how I wanted it to turn out.

I believe she was going for a french kiss aswell, because I felt her tongue run across my lips about twice but then she pulled back. And sat on top of me in the cowgirl position and gazed at me so I joked around with her, etc... then we got ready 2 go to the library. She was still pretty much all over me. Then I left, giving her a kiss goodbye ( just a peck on the lips though, I need more practice with kissing.)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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nishbuk

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You are overanalyzing this man.
 

speedo_meme

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what's the point of this story? You got the girl, what's the problem?
 

BxPrince24

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I'm not looking into anything, just telling how the day went, because in my previous thread, there were some doubts about me and her. The only thing I'm saying is that I need some work with kissing and that I didn't crash and burn with her.
 

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Well... I'm also thinking that my fears are coming true. It's probably just nervousness from this being my first relationship. But I fear that I'm gonna now be entitled to do things such as calling (I'm not a phone person). I don't know, but I know that I'm nervous.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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