You know when you do something with a girl and feel real good after you've done it, as if you've increased her interest or something.
Well I think that's what most people are doing, they feel good that they did something to get over their fears and then post it as advice.
Problem being, it could have not even helped a bit with the girl but since your in a good mood you assume it does. That may explain the reason for all the bad advice.
I think the best tactic to find out what girls really think is to go undercover becoming one of their "gay friends". You'll find out that the real world is very different then what this site says. And that most of what we talk about attraction is just deals with the the combination of when their period is and search for social status. That's really all it is.
Well I think that's what most people are doing, they feel good that they did something to get over their fears and then post it as advice.
Problem being, it could have not even helped a bit with the girl but since your in a good mood you assume it does. That may explain the reason for all the bad advice.
I think the best tactic to find out what girls really think is to go undercover becoming one of their "gay friends". You'll find out that the real world is very different then what this site says. And that most of what we talk about attraction is just deals with the the combination of when their period is and search for social status. That's really all it is.