"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Interesting thing to think about.

Bvbidd

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You know when you do something with a girl and feel real good after you've done it, as if you've increased her interest or something.

Well I think that's what most people are doing, they feel good that they did something to get over their fears and then post it as advice.

Problem being, it could have not even helped a bit with the girl but since your in a good mood you assume it does. That may explain the reason for all the bad advice.

I think the best tactic to find out what girls really think is to go undercover becoming one of their "gay friends". You'll find out that the real world is very different then what this site says. And that most of what we talk about attraction is just deals with the the combination of when their period is and search for social status. That's really all it is.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BBX

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I agree, all of this attraction crap is compleatly random and shouldn't be taken as a science. Like I said in a post inn the hs forum, you increase your chances by going after more.
 

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BBX said:
I agree, all of this attraction crap is compleatly random and shouldn't be taken as a science. Like I said in a post inn the hs forum, you increase your chances by going after more.
agreed. not all women r the same. i think peope try to talk like all women like all the same dudes, and that the best girls come when u dont look for em, etc. but in reality, the more u go after, the more likely u'll get it.
 
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