"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Interesting thing to think about.

Bvbidd

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You know when you do something with a girl and feel real good after you've done it, as if you've increased her interest or something.

Well I think that's what most people are doing, they feel good that they did something to get over their fears and then post it as advice.

Problem being, it could have not even helped a bit with the girl but since your in a good mood you assume it does. That may explain the reason for all the bad advice.

I think the best tactic to find out what girls really think is to go undercover becoming one of their "gay friends". You'll find out that the real world is very different then what this site says. And that most of what we talk about attraction is just deals with the the combination of when their period is and search for social status. That's really all it is.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I agree, all of this attraction crap is compleatly random and shouldn't be taken as a science. Like I said in a post inn the hs forum, you increase your chances by going after more.
 

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BBX said:
I agree, all of this attraction crap is compleatly random and shouldn't be taken as a science. Like I said in a post inn the hs forum, you increase your chances by going after more.
agreed. not all women r the same. i think peope try to talk like all women like all the same dudes, and that the best girls come when u dont look for em, etc. but in reality, the more u go after, the more likely u'll get it.
 
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