"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Interesting talk with my co worker

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I recently had an EMS partner. Anyone that worked in the field knows that when you are stuck for 12 hrs in an ambo with someone you eventually hear their life story.

My partner saw me listening to manosphere content. She started telling me that listening to CGA helped her in her relationship. Her bf would have CGA on in the background.

She told me that she grew up with a single mom. She never had a father in the home. Her dad was not around. She was not used to having any discipline or boundaries. This caused her to be discharged from the military.

Her bf would give her advice and she would not listen. Then things would go wrong when she would do it her way. She finally started to submit and things got better in her life.

She told me the reasons that she became a feminist. They were very interesting. She is obviously no longer a feminist. Maybe I will write about her reasons later.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What is CGA?
Sorry he is famous manosphere Youtuber called Coach Greg Adams. He is great and very popular. He is also very inspirational. Redpill awareness is changing the world. When co workers are mentioning it then you know the shift is happening.
 
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