"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Interesting study

Lexington

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http://www.iht.com/articles/2009/01/23/healthscience/25desiret.php

It's a super long read, but the first page describes an interesting experiment.

When it comes to women "mind and genitals seemed scarcely to belong to the same person."

I think it reinforces one of the most oft-repeated lessons on this forum.....what women say they are attracted to and what really turns them on are two completely different things.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Interesting, indeed.
 

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I just went through and read the whole article, not just the first page. It went on to talk about the work of many other female sexologists and their findings.

What really struck me is that much of what these sexologists found backs up what people have been saying on these forums.

I won't lie, at first I doubted some of the stuff here. I really believed what girls had to say about what they're attracted to, turns them on etc. Now more so than ever, I'm confident that this is usually B.S.

These female sexologists, who have made it their life's work to study female sexuality, have come to conclusions that support a lot of what's said here on SS.
 
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