"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Interesting study

Lexington

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http://www.iht.com/articles/2009/01/23/healthscience/25desiret.php

It's a super long read, but the first page describes an interesting experiment.

When it comes to women "mind and genitals seemed scarcely to belong to the same person."

I think it reinforces one of the most oft-repeated lessons on this forum.....what women say they are attracted to and what really turns them on are two completely different things.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Interesting, indeed.
 

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I just went through and read the whole article, not just the first page. It went on to talk about the work of many other female sexologists and their findings.

What really struck me is that much of what these sexologists found backs up what people have been saying on these forums.

I won't lie, at first I doubted some of the stuff here. I really believed what girls had to say about what they're attracted to, turns them on etc. Now more so than ever, I'm confident that this is usually B.S.

These female sexologists, who have made it their life's work to study female sexuality, have come to conclusions that support a lot of what's said here on SS.
 
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