Great. It really seems very natural. The examples you gave with the high value / low value guy point me to the direction that I am definitely displaying low value behaviour and I am qualifying myself and escalating on my own high points. Also, I think I build way too much comfort and my lines are missing the sexual vibe as well; that added to the fact that my SMV likely isn't as high as yours leads me to think that it will definitely take me years of practice and hard work but looking forward to it. Thank god this site exists so I can analyze what's wrong, 99% of my friends are nice guys so to speak and they don't want to spend time/don't care on improving this aspect of their lives, so they settle with the first woman that is into them, so to speak "get lucky" without it being intentional.
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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There are 3 things to remember.
Escalation , escalation and escalation. Repeat.
I’ve made out with a girl without even exchanging a word and fcked her later that night . Why ? Because i escalated .
I’ve fcked an older friend of mine which i thought she friendzoned me . I even made a thread about her some years ago . Do you know what i did differently? I escalated. There is no secret .
If you escalate and the chick backs off or not then the answer is obvious . If the chicks backs off you can still try to escalate but don’t get too pushy cause it can be easily be considered rape .
God i wish everyone could understand how easy it is . Well i guess most of us have been there .
Escalation , escalation and escalation. Repeat.
I’ve made out with a girl without even exchanging a word and fcked her later that night . Why ? Because i escalated .
I’ve fcked an older friend of mine which i thought she friendzoned me . I even made a thread about her some years ago . Do you know what i did differently? I escalated. There is no secret .
If you escalate and the chick backs off or not then the answer is obvious . If the chicks backs off you can still try to escalate but don’t get too pushy cause it can be easily be considered rape .
God i wish everyone could understand how easy it is . Well i guess most of us have been there .