Great ideas, I literally had no idea about that. I understand you now, the windows analogy was great.
Thanks again for the amazing post, I love your explanations!
I'd be very interested if you could point me to a post/book/material where you read these lol. I guess it happens automatically with experience, but I'd rather have a quick boost.There's probably a million shades of social calibration that I can talk about when it comes to social circle game. I can probably write a book. But I won't do that. I'll just tell you that seduction is a "dance." Both parties participate. Neither is static. You read and react accordingly.
You put that very well. I think this is my mistake and I finally understood what you mean. So I suppose I'm looking like the guy who can't read signs when I get LJBF'd by low interest woman. It means I am going after them without them giving me a sign and just because I'm interested in them, and now the outcome seems predictable. What could be more signs to look for? I'm speaking from the perspective of a guy who is kind of late bloomer with women, especially going out to closed parties etc., was never a party guy before. I suspect it'll be useful for other people too.However, you cannot violate the law of high interest. She must initiate by giving you a sign. This is even more so important in a social circle. You don't want to be a raging bull knocking everything over. She'll look at you like you've never been in a social circle before. Or you've never hooked up with someone discreetly before.
Thanks again for the amazing post, I love your explanations!