"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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you better hope you don't scratch on the 8 ball
Apparently her gf got super p!ssed over her having this conversation with me. It has sent their relationship on edge. Shes having doubts about her current situation with the gf.

I also previously told her the arrangement is off but if she decided things got bad enough with the gf that she needed to switch back to the other side of the plate, let me know. But it would be 100% safe sex.

She offered to get free next weekend. Drinks and shooting pool on my terms. No quid pro quo. Just good fun next Friday night.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Man i just cant live that way these days. There's a lot of goodness going on out here as well. Too much fear mongering.

Guru likes to blab about all that fear stuff. Shoot him a message on that im sure he's gotta sermon for ya on it. Lol
You need some of the fear stuff so your aware. Balance is required.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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Believe me DEE as Vietnams economy grows and the west continues to deteriorate moving there is on the table.
I don't understand that importance of marriage. Are you trad?

I am spot on with you On everything else. I think its ideal for you if outside 1st world countries, international bank accounts, money in btc among a variety of other things. Its still a crap shoot.

Is this your end game?
 

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Hell no. The game stops when you quit breathing. I don't consider myself trad if i understand the term correctly. I think i have done the best that i can up to this point with the knowledge i have.
Marriage as end game i mean.

Its funny. You can be "friends" platonic with a older woman but the sec you are living that Dicaprio lifestyle or you acknowledge female nature, women always collude with the female primary without fail. Its even at the cost of their husband and sons. Female nature is full blown solipsistic.

There's a reason why I can't fathom losing autonomy by bringing the state in to my affairs. As bachelor mode, not in the mood means next.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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