"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So there's this girl I know. I met her in a Church. I don't see her or talk to her that often but we do talk online quite a bit.

The trouble is, I want to see her in person more. Now I know she's attracted to me because she's very receptive to kino. And she often allows herself to "accidentally" brush up against me when we're sitting close together. But whenever I suggest we get together, she doesn't ever reject me but always seems to lead me on and find an excuse at the last minute.

I don't really know what to do at this point. We'd go far if we just saw each other in person once in a while (and preferably away from her friends). It would be in both our interests really. But the only time I ever do see her is at a church function like the one I met her at, other than that we just talk online. Anyone have any ideas besides "just move on, she's not worth the time"?

There's probably more details I could explain, but I'm really tired.

By the way, I'd really like an answer to this. Ask for more information if you need it. I know getting help around here is a little hit or miss sometimes.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

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dont talk to her online as much......get her number and set something up....you dont want to totally next her but dont pay too much attention if shes just playing games with you.
 
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moto said:
dont talk to her online as much......get her number and set something up....you dont want to totally next her but dont pay too much attention if shes just playing games with you.
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Thanks for the reply. Yes I was thinking I'll probably have better luck on the phone. Trouble is, I don't have a cell phone. No big deal, though, I can use the land line.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Stop chatting 2 her on IM
 
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yeah like the other guys said, i'm not a big fan of IM... cos u can misinterpret a lot of things, and u cant do the kino.. and u cant see her body language.. which for me is key to understanding how she feels for me...

flirting on IM looks way too obvious and you cant really be subtle... whereas u can get away with more obvious flirting in person...! u can pretend it's a joke in person with a cheesy grin.. and also cos they cant "read the words" in real life lol... some things are better said, than typed hehe.. it's weird..

so yeah get her number, talk to her.. call her out catch up for coffee or something :) something casual , just hang out as friends, see if u like her!
 
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