"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Interesting Photo

Desdinova

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I really find this photo interesting. First of all, here's the back story...

Woman has a kid at age 20 with some dude. She breaks up with him and starts dating other men. Eventually, she finds herself a new man and gets married to him less than one year later. A few months after that, she gives birth to a new baby boy.

Here is the photo.

As a side note, I have not edited it. This is exactly as it was taken.

What do you notice?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Her husband is so important his head is cut off the pic :p
Correct!

This guy took on the responsibility of helping her raise a kid that isn't his, married her, gave her his sperm to create another child, and he doesn't even earn the privilege of being in a photo of "all the boys".
 

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Correct!

This guy took on the responsibility of helping her raise a kid that isn't his, married her, gave her his sperm to create another child, and he doesn't even earn the privilege of being in a photo of "all the boys".
Holy ****.. you are right!

If I was in that guys shoes then I'd be feeling like ****
 
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