You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
OLD can best be described as a nightclub that's free for women with myriads of issues to enter and live in where they then get to decide which men who look like Chippendale's dancers are only allowed on their guest V.I.P list for "serious relationships"(one after the other), free drinks, and all you can eat complimentary buffet all on the house (men's wallets).yannick43 said:Yes yes yes yes, live is best, at least you can see them looking at you and there are not zillions of guys after here at the same time.
I never believe in online dating anyway, sure for some people it might work but me its the same thing i do a lot better live, at least they see you are funny and even if not the most attractive guy in the place you get out there and have fun and do your thing.
I know various women at my job where i shop and so on that tell me for my age a lot older 43 getting in shape and all that i look real good, and they don't understand why online does not work for me.
Well fukk online its good to see people leaving that hell hole.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
The only ways to find women:Lozboss said:On a related point:
How do most of you do your dating?
I agree POF is retarded, Tinder is pretty much the same because of the other reasons (loads of Betas with no standards).
I've only just recently taken the Red Pill and discovered the potential power. Do you just cold approach women you like on the street?