You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
OLD can best be described as a nightclub that's free for women with myriads of issues to enter and live in where they then get to decide which men who look like Chippendale's dancers are only allowed on their guest V.I.P list for "serious relationships"(one after the other), free drinks, and all you can eat complimentary buffet all on the house (men's wallets).yannick43 said:Yes yes yes yes, live is best, at least you can see them looking at you and there are not zillions of guys after here at the same time.
I never believe in online dating anyway, sure for some people it might work but me its the same thing i do a lot better live, at least they see you are funny and even if not the most attractive guy in the place you get out there and have fun and do your thing.
I know various women at my job where i shop and so on that tell me for my age a lot older 43 getting in shape and all that i look real good, and they don't understand why online does not work for me.
Well fukk online its good to see people leaving that hell hole.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The only ways to find women:Lozboss said:On a related point:
How do most of you do your dating?
I agree POF is retarded, Tinder is pretty much the same because of the other reasons (loads of Betas with no standards).
I've only just recently taken the Red Pill and discovered the potential power. Do you just cold approach women you like on the street?