"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Interesting homework assignment

HandyAndy

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Does any here happen to be a war veteran? Like WW2, vietnam? Probably not, but I have an assignment where I have to find a war vet (on the street, what are the odds of that, and how would I know they are vets anyway) and ask them a few questions.

I doubt this but is anyone here a veteran?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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There should be a place where they all hang out. I forget what it's called, but veterans usually hang out together.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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V.F.W. (Veterans of Foreign Wars).

I have a surly response rattling around in my head about the lack of knowledge about VFWs but I'm going to let it be.
 
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