"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Interesting Girl.

Joe Stud

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exhibit less/no interest. Look good, be confident, smell good, and flirt with other EQUALIVANT HBs. DHV and also a form of no (less) contact.

by no means should you act hurt or pissed. more like you have become disinterested because you have your eye on other HBs

make her seek your attention. I bet she will
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ok Brother Pimp, Uncle joe will disclose a secret:

i once had one i was "workin on" like this chick. i also had a pretty hot ex-stripper friend who owed me a favor because i fixed something for her son. Just for the hell of it, I asked her to do a "fake date" with me so we could run into the chick I was working on. She dressed HOT, hung on my arm, leaned in a lot, and we had a great time getting the chick jealous.
By time I got home my phone was ringing. the chick was asking who my date was, how long have I known her, etc etc.

Now a lot of DJ's may dissaprove. But it worked fairly well here. And even if it hadnt, it was a fun night, and lots of laughs for the ex & myself on the way home.
i generally dont stoop to their bratty level, but on occasion its fun to fight fire with fire
 

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Yea The low interest seems to be a good idea. I haven't talked to her since the incident.

I talk to other girl's but this one is def. the best looking. Anyways thanks for the tips.
 

PimpOfTheSouth

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I'm still dating this girl and things are going pretty well. The one thing that's concerning me though is that this girl seems to think she has all the power basically like im doing all the chasing despite the fact she always initiates contact with me and asks to hangout.

I also recently learned that shes coming out of a short relationship 4 months in which she broke up with her boyfriend and was still talking to him around the time I came into the picture.

Should I continue dating this girl and what if any am I doing wrong to lead her to believe shes in such control?
 
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