"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Interesting Girl.

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exhibit less/no interest. Look good, be confident, smell good, and flirt with other EQUALIVANT HBs. DHV and also a form of no (less) contact.

by no means should you act hurt or pissed. more like you have become disinterested because you have your eye on other HBs

make her seek your attention. I bet she will
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ok Brother Pimp, Uncle joe will disclose a secret:

i once had one i was "workin on" like this chick. i also had a pretty hot ex-stripper friend who owed me a favor because i fixed something for her son. Just for the hell of it, I asked her to do a "fake date" with me so we could run into the chick I was working on. She dressed HOT, hung on my arm, leaned in a lot, and we had a great time getting the chick jealous.
By time I got home my phone was ringing. the chick was asking who my date was, how long have I known her, etc etc.

Now a lot of DJ's may dissaprove. But it worked fairly well here. And even if it hadnt, it was a fun night, and lots of laughs for the ex & myself on the way home.
i generally dont stoop to their bratty level, but on occasion its fun to fight fire with fire
 
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Yea The low interest seems to be a good idea. I haven't talked to her since the incident.

I talk to other girl's but this one is def. the best looking. Anyways thanks for the tips.
 
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I'm still dating this girl and things are going pretty well. The one thing that's concerning me though is that this girl seems to think she has all the power basically like im doing all the chasing despite the fact she always initiates contact with me and asks to hangout.

I also recently learned that shes coming out of a short relationship 4 months in which she broke up with her boyfriend and was still talking to him around the time I came into the picture.

Should I continue dating this girl and what if any am I doing wrong to lead her to believe shes in such control?
 
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