"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I asked her if she wanted to hangout this fridayy, She asked where at? I told her I needed to get a shirt so she could help me pick it out. Her response was "You Gonna Buy Me One To?" I was like "Yea if u pay for dinner" ;) She Responded "ha"

How do you deal with a girl like this? She really wanted a shirt she wasn't playing? lmao.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's what the kids call "joking".
 
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All jokes aside my question is how do you deal with a girl trying to nit pick you for things when you take her out on a date say to the mall? Especially if she's really trying to get something out of you. I believe buying something for a girl you only had 3 dates with is AFC behavior.
 
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JLay87 said:
She's not asking you to buy a fvcking shirt, dude.
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He's from the south....don't think they understand sarcasm and whatnot.

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All jokes aside my question is how do you deal with a girl trying to nit pick you for things when you take her out on a date say to the mall? Especially if she's really trying to get something out of you. I believe buying something for a girl you only had 3 dates with is AFC behavior.
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I wouldn't know, bro. Because I'm not in high school and I don't take girls to malls for f**kin dates.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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everything in this world is give n take. give her the shirt, then take her pu__y. be versatile, be confident, be alpha, and do it!
 
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Some of the questions are this board are the most asinine and over-analyzed questions that can be asked.
 
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LOL.

Buy her the shirt man. It's cheaper than a hooker.
 
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You didn't buy her the shirt? I am disappoint.
 
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PimpOfTheSouth said:
I asked her if she wanted to hangout this fridayy, She asked where at? I told her I needed to get a shirt so she could help me pick it out. Her response was "You Gonna Buy Me One To?" I was like "Yea if u pay for dinner" ;) She Responded "ha"

How do you deal with a girl like this? She really wanted a shirt she wasn't playing? lmao.
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This post needs to be archived. Hilarious.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Nahh were going out tonight. I thought buying the shirt was an AFC move?
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I agree with F283000,I think she was just joking as well,but you know what?

Even if she wasn't joking and was serious,so what? DON'T BUY HER A SHIRT,and if she brings it up while out on the date,just flat out say,"Are you crazy? I'm NOT BUYING you a shirt.


If she spends more time trying to get you to buy her something than trying to get to know you,then I doubt she really likes you. She's just taking you as some chump she thinks she can get over on.


I doubt that's the case though. You said you've already had 3 dates with her,so I don't think she'd be going out on a dates and spending time with you if she didn't like you.


It also could have been a test to see if you're a real MAN,or just another guy she can use her looks to take advantage of.




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All jokes aside my question is how do you deal with a girl trying to nit pick you for things when you take her out on a date say to the mall?
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How do you deal with it? Easy dude....



Just say NO.


If she says the "buy me a shirt" thing only once or twice,then she drops it,then fine,but if she repeatedly brings it up,I'd fire back at her.



I'd be like,"Look,I'm not buying you a shirt,but if you want a bra,I could get you one. Yeah....let's go to a lingerie store,I'll get myself a chair,sit down,and you can go try on a couple of things FOR ME,and I'll tell you what I LIKE best".




Like I said,I'd ONLY SAY THAT if she repeatedly keeps coming at you with that "buy me a shirt" bullcrap.



That'll generate some chemistry in her and take her mind of this "shirt" nonsense.
 
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That's The exact answer I was looking for "IGETIT" great advice.
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What kind of chicks are you dating that think you're supposed to buy them clothes? I've never experienced that in my life.

Sounds like you need to upgrade, man. Stop scooping up girls out of the projects and move on to college educated chicks with jobs.

And I'm still 95% sure that girl was joking. But maybe you've experienced this before.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ok, yesterday you disagreed with the few Dj's (including myself), who advised to "just get her the shirt and get layyed". And you further pointed out that you were going out with her "tonight" (which was last night), and you are NOT getting her the shirt.
Now her is the question:
Did you get it in last night?
 
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No I didn't it was a double date with another one of her girlfriend's.

What I have found out is that this girl is like a Tyrannical Dictator. She called me upp todayy askin to hangout I told her not Tonight I was busy and the Trick hung upp on Me!

Now this girl is a Hottie but I refuse to put up with such immature behavior. She may be able to do that crap with her little P*ssy boys but that ain't going to cut it with me.
 
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So I have cooled down since last night. How do you guys put up with a girl that hangs up on you because you couldn't hangout that particular night?

My current thinking is too just ignore her until she learns some respect.
 
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well NOW you have a different situation.
If it had been JOE STUD, he would have gotten her the (very sexy) shirt, demanded that she model it at his or her place while sipping some booze, and bangged the hell outta her.
Just like the old cowboys who "break" the spirit of a wild stallion... she would now be too "tame" to get away with that hangin up sh!t!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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