"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I asked her if she wanted to hangout this fridayy, She asked where at? I told her I needed to get a shirt so she could help me pick it out. Her response was "You Gonna Buy Me One To?" I was like "Yea if u pay for dinner" ;) She Responded "ha"

How do you deal with a girl like this? She really wanted a shirt she wasn't playing? lmao.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's what the kids call "joking".
 
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All jokes aside my question is how do you deal with a girl trying to nit pick you for things when you take her out on a date say to the mall? Especially if she's really trying to get something out of you. I believe buying something for a girl you only had 3 dates with is AFC behavior.
 
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JLay87 said:
She's not asking you to buy a fvcking shirt, dude.
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He's from the south....don't think they understand sarcasm and whatnot.

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All jokes aside my question is how do you deal with a girl trying to nit pick you for things when you take her out on a date say to the mall? Especially if she's really trying to get something out of you. I believe buying something for a girl you only had 3 dates with is AFC behavior.
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I wouldn't know, bro. Because I'm not in high school and I don't take girls to malls for f**kin dates.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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everything in this world is give n take. give her the shirt, then take her pu__y. be versatile, be confident, be alpha, and do it!
 
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Some of the questions are this board are the most asinine and over-analyzed questions that can be asked.
 
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LOL.

Buy her the shirt man. It's cheaper than a hooker.
 
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You didn't buy her the shirt? I am disappoint.
 
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PimpOfTheSouth said:
I asked her if she wanted to hangout this fridayy, She asked where at? I told her I needed to get a shirt so she could help me pick it out. Her response was "You Gonna Buy Me One To?" I was like "Yea if u pay for dinner" ;) She Responded "ha"

How do you deal with a girl like this? She really wanted a shirt she wasn't playing? lmao.
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This post needs to be archived. Hilarious.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PimpOfTheSouth said:
Nahh were going out tonight. I thought buying the shirt was an AFC move?
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I agree with F283000,I think she was just joking as well,but you know what?

Even if she wasn't joking and was serious,so what? DON'T BUY HER A SHIRT,and if she brings it up while out on the date,just flat out say,"Are you crazy? I'm NOT BUYING you a shirt.


If she spends more time trying to get you to buy her something than trying to get to know you,then I doubt she really likes you. She's just taking you as some chump she thinks she can get over on.


I doubt that's the case though. You said you've already had 3 dates with her,so I don't think she'd be going out on a dates and spending time with you if she didn't like you.


It also could have been a test to see if you're a real MAN,or just another guy she can use her looks to take advantage of.




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All jokes aside my question is how do you deal with a girl trying to nit pick you for things when you take her out on a date say to the mall?
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How do you deal with it? Easy dude....



Just say NO.


If she says the "buy me a shirt" thing only once or twice,then she drops it,then fine,but if she repeatedly brings it up,I'd fire back at her.



I'd be like,"Look,I'm not buying you a shirt,but if you want a bra,I could get you one. Yeah....let's go to a lingerie store,I'll get myself a chair,sit down,and you can go try on a couple of things FOR ME,and I'll tell you what I LIKE best".




Like I said,I'd ONLY SAY THAT if she repeatedly keeps coming at you with that "buy me a shirt" bullcrap.



That'll generate some chemistry in her and take her mind of this "shirt" nonsense.
 
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That's The exact answer I was looking for "IGETIT" great advice.
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What kind of chicks are you dating that think you're supposed to buy them clothes? I've never experienced that in my life.

Sounds like you need to upgrade, man. Stop scooping up girls out of the projects and move on to college educated chicks with jobs.

And I'm still 95% sure that girl was joking. But maybe you've experienced this before.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ok, yesterday you disagreed with the few Dj's (including myself), who advised to "just get her the shirt and get layyed". And you further pointed out that you were going out with her "tonight" (which was last night), and you are NOT getting her the shirt.
Now her is the question:
Did you get it in last night?
 
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No I didn't it was a double date with another one of her girlfriend's.

What I have found out is that this girl is like a Tyrannical Dictator. She called me upp todayy askin to hangout I told her not Tonight I was busy and the Trick hung upp on Me!

Now this girl is a Hottie but I refuse to put up with such immature behavior. She may be able to do that crap with her little P*ssy boys but that ain't going to cut it with me.
 
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So I have cooled down since last night. How do you guys put up with a girl that hangs up on you because you couldn't hangout that particular night?

My current thinking is too just ignore her until she learns some respect.
 
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well NOW you have a different situation.
If it had been JOE STUD, he would have gotten her the (very sexy) shirt, demanded that she model it at his or her place while sipping some booze, and bangged the hell outta her.
Just like the old cowboys who "break" the spirit of a wild stallion... she would now be too "tame" to get away with that hangin up sh!t!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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