"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Interesting Girl.

Joe Stud

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exhibit less/no interest. Look good, be confident, smell good, and flirt with other EQUALIVANT HBs. DHV and also a form of no (less) contact.

by no means should you act hurt or pissed. more like you have become disinterested because you have your eye on other HBs

make her seek your attention. I bet she will
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ok Brother Pimp, Uncle joe will disclose a secret:

i once had one i was "workin on" like this chick. i also had a pretty hot ex-stripper friend who owed me a favor because i fixed something for her son. Just for the hell of it, I asked her to do a "fake date" with me so we could run into the chick I was working on. She dressed HOT, hung on my arm, leaned in a lot, and we had a great time getting the chick jealous.
By time I got home my phone was ringing. the chick was asking who my date was, how long have I known her, etc etc.

Now a lot of DJ's may dissaprove. But it worked fairly well here. And even if it hadnt, it was a fun night, and lots of laughs for the ex & myself on the way home.
i generally dont stoop to their bratty level, but on occasion its fun to fight fire with fire
 

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Yea The low interest seems to be a good idea. I haven't talked to her since the incident.

I talk to other girl's but this one is def. the best looking. Anyways thanks for the tips.
 

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I'm still dating this girl and things are going pretty well. The one thing that's concerning me though is that this girl seems to think she has all the power basically like im doing all the chasing despite the fact she always initiates contact with me and asks to hangout.

I also recently learned that shes coming out of a short relationship 4 months in which she broke up with her boyfriend and was still talking to him around the time I came into the picture.

Should I continue dating this girl and what if any am I doing wrong to lead her to believe shes in such control?
 
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