"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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interesting first date tip

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something that came to me before I went on the two dates I had this week. I decided to bring a pack of gum with me to offer my dates after the meal/coffee we just had to see if she would accept it from me. I figured that it could be a good foreshadowing tool for a kiss close because if she was truly concerned with how she "tasted," she would accept it. Sure enough, the girl I really connected with accepted it from me on our coffee date and I got the kiss close. The other one was a dinner date that at the end of the meal I wasn't too sure how it was going, and she declined it(no kiss). Anyone ever thought of this?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nice one! Good to see someone speaking from experience too!

When your date uses lip balm, take that as a big hint too!
 
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