"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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interesting first date tip

manningtostokley

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something that came to me before I went on the two dates I had this week. I decided to bring a pack of gum with me to offer my dates after the meal/coffee we just had to see if she would accept it from me. I figured that it could be a good foreshadowing tool for a kiss close because if she was truly concerned with how she "tasted," she would accept it. Sure enough, the girl I really connected with accepted it from me on our coffee date and I got the kiss close. The other one was a dinner date that at the end of the meal I wasn't too sure how it was going, and she declined it(no kiss). Anyone ever thought of this?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Nice one! Good to see someone speaking from experience too!

When your date uses lip balm, take that as a big hint too!
 
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