Went to the mall to get an eyeglassess and contact lens today. The eye doctor is substitute. she is a young and cute girl, still in school. During the eye exam process, she asked where i came from, how long i have been here, where do i work, what do i do.. etc.. and I asked her a lot of questions too. totally unrelated to eye exam. All these sounds normal, but at the very end, when i try my contact lens, she said my nail is too long. She grabbed a scissors and cut my nails for me. She told me she only cut for herself and never cut it for anyone else before. What does this mean? I have one more appointment next week..
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Interesting experience with an eye doctor
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
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wheelin&dealin
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When you say this girl is "cute". Were your glasses on or off?
Mr_knowit_all
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Maybe she was just implying that your unhygienic long nail grossed her out, and she cut it for that reason. I do think it's rather weird though.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Nex
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If some girl reached out and started cutting my nails I would probably freak out... it's not normal behavior; and her implying that this "was her first time" makes it seem as if she put some emotional value into it -- meaning she's probably a very weird, maybe even dangerous person.
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this is the real test to see if she likes you:
next time, put your bare feet up on the desk and see if she trims those too.
the next time after that, try to see if she'll trim your nose hair.
for the final test, during the third follow up visit......... your pubic hair
please post a field report.
next time, put your bare feet up on the desk and see if she trims those too.
the next time after that, try to see if she'll trim your nose hair.
for the final test, during the third follow up visit......... your pubic hair
please post a field report.
Hey buddy, I wouldn't stress over this TOO much!
She cut your nails because it was too long to hold the contacts without damaging them (i think, i don't know how it is
), or because it was an excuse to touch you. Either way it's one or the other: she's into you, or she's not.
You can ponder over this event all you want but if you want to find out for sure there's only one way: bust some C&F and number close the next time you see or visit her! If she's diggin' your game then BAM! number close~ if she says no to number or gives a fake one, then NEXTTTTT
She cut your nails because it was too long to hold the contacts without damaging them (i think, i don't know how it is
), or because it was an excuse to touch you. Either way it's one or the other: she's into you, or she's not. You can ponder over this event all you want but if you want to find out for sure there's only one way: bust some C&F and number close the next time you see or visit her! If she's diggin' your game then BAM! number close~ if she says no to number or gives a fake one, then NEXTTTTT
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.