Went to the mall to get an eyeglassess and contact lens today. The eye doctor is substitute. she is a young and cute girl, still in school. During the eye exam process, she asked where i came from, how long i have been here, where do i work, what do i do.. etc.. and I asked her a lot of questions too. totally unrelated to eye exam. All these sounds normal, but at the very end, when i try my contact lens, she said my nail is too long. She grabbed a scissors and cut my nails for me. She told me she only cut for herself and never cut it for anyone else before. What does this mean? I have one more appointment next week..
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Interesting experience with an eye doctor
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
wheelin&dealin
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When you say this girl is "cute". Were your glasses on or off?
Mr_knowit_all
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Maybe she was just implying that your unhygienic long nail grossed her out, and she cut it for that reason. I do think it's rather weird though.
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Nex
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If some girl reached out and started cutting my nails I would probably freak out... it's not normal behavior; and her implying that this "was her first time" makes it seem as if she put some emotional value into it -- meaning she's probably a very weird, maybe even dangerous person.
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this is the real test to see if she likes you:
next time, put your bare feet up on the desk and see if she trims those too.
the next time after that, try to see if she'll trim your nose hair.
for the final test, during the third follow up visit......... your pubic hair
please post a field report.
next time, put your bare feet up on the desk and see if she trims those too.
the next time after that, try to see if she'll trim your nose hair.
for the final test, during the third follow up visit......... your pubic hair
please post a field report.
Hey buddy, I wouldn't stress over this TOO much!
She cut your nails because it was too long to hold the contacts without damaging them (i think, i don't know how it is
), or because it was an excuse to touch you. Either way it's one or the other: she's into you, or she's not.
You can ponder over this event all you want but if you want to find out for sure there's only one way: bust some C&F and number close the next time you see or visit her! If she's diggin' your game then BAM! number close~ if she says no to number or gives a fake one, then NEXTTTTT
She cut your nails because it was too long to hold the contacts without damaging them (i think, i don't know how it is
), or because it was an excuse to touch you. Either way it's one or the other: she's into you, or she's not. You can ponder over this event all you want but if you want to find out for sure there's only one way: bust some C&F and number close the next time you see or visit her! If she's diggin' your game then BAM! number close~ if she says no to number or gives a fake one, then NEXTTTTT
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.