MatureDJ
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Interesting essay by a depressed married man longing for his better days
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Assuming it's not fiction, the guy only has himself to blame. Marriage is not prison; you can leave if you want.
Mr.Positive
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It was his choice to get married, his choice to have children...
He can't blame his family for that.
Since he's married, by his choice, he needs to man-up and realize that there's people depending on him, for their welfare, growth..his job now...isn't Thailand..
It's raising his children properly. That should be his focus.
He can't blame his family for that.
Since he's married, by his choice, he needs to man-up and realize that there's people depending on him, for their welfare, growth..his job now...isn't Thailand..
It's raising his children properly. That should be his focus.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
But he's not raising his children well. He's showing them a horrible example of a relationship. His kids will think that men are supposed to be whipped and they will grow up to have fvcked up relationships of their own. I think 'doing the right thing' is a form of child abuse. Ironically, staying in a hellhole marriage is supposed to be "for the kids?" If his kids are not just as miserable as him (and his wife), then they will be eventually.
I think divorce is better for kids than a bad marriage. The kids I knew whose parents stayed together for their sake are just as fvcked up as anyone else.
I think divorce is better for kids than a bad marriage. The kids I knew whose parents stayed together for their sake are just as fvcked up as anyone else.
Mr.Positive
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Well, he needs to raise his children well. He needs to be a role model for his children, he needs to guide them, teach them...hell, give his life for them if needed.Bible_Belt said:
When you have children, it isn't about YOU anymore!!
F*ck the marriage. We all know how "fragile" marriages are now. That's no secret.
It's our children that really matter. It's the young ones that are grasping for guidance, but not finding any masculine role-models.
We need to recognize this. The lack of masculine leaders for our children.
There's comes a point where men need to step up to the plate and lead.
That point is our children.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
KarmaSutra
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Every goddamned word Brother Positive wrote is fvcking true to the bone.Mr.Positive said:
He made his bed and his kids but doesn't have the sac to get his sh!t together and whip that ass? Fvck him.
He's responsible for his inhuman condition.
Last Man Standing
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He needs to control his wife and children or else they will control him!! He likes the pimp lifestyle but that lifestyle gets old - if you love hors, then do not get married! And if you don't like large woman then don't get married to one!!