"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Interesting encounter this morning at the Coffee Shop

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This morning I took a walk at our local coffee shop, I ordered a Chai Tea latte with some cookies and sat down by the patio to read a book and chill. Fifteeen minutes later, I see a white slim couple and the wife seemed rather feminine, she wore long skirts like a conservative wife and she was pregnant and when she saw me she smiled. I thought that was nice gesture. Ten minutes later, I saw a mother to daughter Latina woman pair, the younger daughter was attractive but she wore tight yoga spandex like her mom and she was giving me mix messages when she stared at me and gave me an irate look. I did not know what to think of it. I was wearing my Orange Texas long horns beanie, khaki pants and my open flannel t shirt, I had a calm vibe about me because it was a relaxed environment. It seems like if you’re a bachelor these days and you’re in a relaxed state of mind somewhere and you’re content with your dating life and options, people, especially some women will look at you funny. This is the freakin matriarchy and feminist brainwashing we got to fight off bro, don’t let these things ultimately steal your vibe. Don’t be afraid to have a dinner for one by yourself and have a pleasant evening and a warm bath waiting for you when you get back home.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Checked my e-mails at another coffee shop this morning. Listened to some Creed, Weezer, Bob Marley on my headphones and ordered a breakfast sandwich. Im going to keep this vacation relaxing and simple.
 

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This morning I took a walk at our local coffee shop, I ordered a Chai Tea latte with some cookies and sat down by the patio to read a book and chill. Fifteeen minutes later, I see a white slim couple and the wife seemed rather feminine, she wore long skirts like a conservative wife and she was pregnant and when she saw me she smiled. I thought that was nice gesture. Ten minutes later, I saw a mother to daughter Latina woman pair, the younger daughter was attractive but she wore tight yoga spandex like her mom and she was giving me mix messages when she stared at me and gave me an irate look. I did not know what to think of it. I was wearing my Orange Texas long horns beanie, khaki pants and my open flannel t shirt, I had a calm vibe about me because it was a relaxed environment. It seems like if you’re a bachelor these days and you’re in a relaxed state of mind somewhere and you’re content with your dating life and options, people, especially some women will look at you funny. This is the freakin matriarchy and feminist brainwashing we got to fight off bro, don’t let these things ultimately steal your vibe. Don’t be afraid to have a dinner for one by yourself and have a pleasant evening and a warm bath waiting for you when you get back home.
This has nothing to do with you. You are a stranger to these women. Women are often retarded when it comes to their reactions. Women will wear revealing clothes and then get mad when guys look. They only want the guys they find attractive to look. Also, some women have become brainwashed by modern feminism to hate the “male gaze” as they call it, until they become lonely and wonder why no guys hit on them. The first girl seemed more pleasant, hence the reason why she was pregnant, lol.
 

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Yeah if you’re a College student going to a university, you can develop a quick screening eye on which girls are riding the carousel and which girls have a modest appeal. If you’re into sports fvcking, these types of things might not matter, but if you were to invest in a quality relationship, these things actually do. So learn how to screen and look for timeless qualities that would make for a good relationship.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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