"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Interesting Day

gammapibeta123

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First, I'd just like to say that you're comments would be greatly appreciated. That said, I will continue.

Ok there's this girl that I have been using as my 'lab rat' for DJing. Lately I have been working kino into the conversations and she responds well to it. So today as we were walking out of class she comes up behind me, grabs my arm and presses it on her chest. I let it sit there as we were walking and she says 'You looked bored out of your mind at homecoming..." and I said "Yeah it was kinda boring." and she says "Yeah, you should have left with me."

So I put in some C+F by saying "Yeah THAT would have been fun!" in a real sarcastic tone. She was like 'Ha ha, real funny"

After that I had to go to class so I said bye and we went our different ways.

So basically do you think she wants me or not? I really have no interest in this girl. I just use her as a "lab rat" for my DJing (which is probably wrong, but who the fvck cares? lol ).

Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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GaryNas

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She's showing IL... Take her up on her suggestions next time so you can practice in other areas too.
 

cactus3178

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Dude, did you take any of the advice in your other thread?

Even if you just want to use this girl as 'practice', you have to take the first step, which you've barely done. Hang out somewhere other than school! Go to her house, have her over, go spend time with her somewhere else.

Her IL seems high, but if you don't respond, she'll find somebody who will. She's stopping short of saying "Hey, give me some d*ck".

Be the man for the job.
 
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