"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Interesting date ideas needed

ICaughtFire

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i need some interesting and unique date ideas that are not over luxarious, normal dates with just hanging out eat and movies are getting real boring

i know that action dates are the best but i dont live in canada or america its very hard to orangise camping with a girl or yatching on a river, i live in hk, overcrowded, intensely urban, polluted, etc =-= not the most rommantic place to date a girl

any help guys?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MrS

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did you check the high school bible?
that has some good ideas.
 

ICaughtFire

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ya i did, and unfortunately most options like boating, snow boarding, beach, carnival etc don't work

mall is gets boring quick here coz most of them are quite small and there aren't too many big ones, play ya that's a good idea she does dancing and drama professionally anyways

i need more options
 

bebobbox

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do some reg borin things first.... then once u can, get a movie at ur house.... hook up with her there ;-)
 

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actually beach should work bcuz i went to a beach in hk before. Also you can go with her to DisneyLand in hk. Umm theres tons of malls in hk, they're actually pretty big. You can go to a park and walk with her. You could get her over to your house as mentioned above to watch a movie.

ANd im surprised you know so much english even tho your in hongkong
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lost In the Seas

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library works 2 if you want to show off ur knowledge to impress her or both of u like reading and quiet or board games
 
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