"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Interesting date ideas needed

ICaughtFire

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 19, 2005
Messages
87
Reaction score
0
i need some interesting and unique date ideas that are not over luxarious, normal dates with just hanging out eat and movies are getting real boring

i know that action dates are the best but i dont live in canada or america its very hard to orangise camping with a girl or yatching on a river, i live in hk, overcrowded, intensely urban, polluted, etc =-= not the most rommantic place to date a girl

any help guys?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

MrS

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 2, 2005
Messages
1,329
Reaction score
7
did you check the high school bible?
that has some good ideas.
 

ICaughtFire

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 19, 2005
Messages
87
Reaction score
0
ya i did, and unfortunately most options like boating, snow boarding, beach, carnival etc don't work

mall is gets boring quick here coz most of them are quite small and there aren't too many big ones, play ya that's a good idea she does dancing and drama professionally anyways

i need more options
 

bebobbox

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 17, 2005
Messages
15
Reaction score
0
do some reg borin things first.... then once u can, get a movie at ur house.... hook up with her there ;-)
 

[]D [] []V[] []D

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 26, 2004
Messages
271
Reaction score
0
Location
Canada
actually beach should work bcuz i went to a beach in hk before. Also you can go with her to DisneyLand in hk. Umm theres tons of malls in hk, they're actually pretty big. You can go to a park and walk with her. You could get her over to your house as mentioned above to watch a movie.

ANd im surprised you know so much english even tho your in hongkong
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Lost In the Seas

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 9, 2004
Messages
236
Reaction score
0
Age
37
Location
Hong Kong
library works 2 if you want to show off ur knowledge to impress her or both of u like reading and quiet or board games
 
Top