"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I've been in a relationship for about 8 months now, everythings going great, but on the phone, sometimes I run out of good things to say, so I hoped everybody could come up with a list of interesting things to talk about.

Thanks in advance.

-LC
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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cashc0w

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read books and the newspaper

go to shows, watch films and listen to music

be intellectually productive
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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How about what's going on in your life? It's not centered around your relationship is it?
 

NickBe

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Water...

When I am out with a woman and we run out of things to say I talk about water. How every single drop of water on Earth has been around for billions of years. It has been inside millions of people, circled the Earth inside clouds countless times. How each drop of water in an ancient relic that existed before any of us did and will outlive us all.

Or I talk about planets.

Something mysterious, interesting it is all in how you describe it. Plus it shows show smart you are.
 
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