“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Seems right on the money, too bad we can't put it in the bible.
 

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He is right about SOME things...

Well, I think he is halfway there. He is at the point of realizing women are emotional creatures (as in fact almost all people are) but what he is forgetting is the STABILIZATION of a particular mindstate/frame.

See the reason 'men' are so logical is because we have morals and ethics and all kinds of BS hammered into our brains. Sine birth nice guys are taught to be loyal and noble and honest and etc. etc. etc.

They create a persona. Mr. Niceguy. Its a psychological function! And as any psychological function it carries on stabilizing factors. Postive stabilization (might feel good about turning down a hooker, aka REWARDED WITH A PLEASANT EMOTION). Negative stabilization (might feel bad about cheating, aka PUNISHED WITH AN EMOTION). There might be limiting stabilizations (can't like her ENOUGH to fvck her.)

What this guy doesn't realize he is doing is TEARING DOWN those stabilizing factors. Once the funciton becomes de-stabilized, a new function can be created. And is. The girl is a whole OTHER persona from the loyal nice girl she is with her boyfriend.

He is ****ing the same body, whole different Identity State.

In third and second world countries, most people are VERY HEAVILY stabilized in their particular 'roles.' This is not so in 1st world countries. In 1st world countries we have the luxury to drift in and out of states of consciousness.

The reason women stay faithful is because they are so heavily STABILIZED in their 'faithful' state.

He says he can't trust women. I can.

He says women are emotional creatures, is he ignoring the fact that emotions can be anchored and triggered? It's pavlov's psychology at this point. SIMPLE SIMPLE STUFF!

If he can de-stabilize a woman's functions, why can't he create anchors and stabilizing factors for the woman he would marry? He doesn't blame women, and says he gets them because of his skills...wouldn't the same logic apply to keeping them?

"SKILLZ";)
 

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Very stimulating post Phoenix! I like the idea of 1st world people floating in and out of states of consciousness. Would you please give some detail on how to anchor and stabilize states of consciousness?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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good stuff

There is a lot of truth to what he says here.
But, he does knock banging a 30 year old.. Hey, most 30 year olds have goooooood puzzy.

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