"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Interesting article on "Manliness"

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I enjoy checking this site out for weight training/ nutrition advice and what not. They have a weekly article known as "atomic dog". They're full of humor, wit and some pretty cool insights from the writer.

I think it's well worth the read and belongs in here :) Enjoy.
http://www.tmuscle.com/portal_includes/articles/2009/09-atomicdog-035.html
Edit:list your thoughts, I for one think for the most part it encompasses what a dj should be.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good article.

One thing I've noticed about being a man is that on the surface, it is a ****ing thankless job. It really is a deeper calling, one that slips beneath the surface and generally tends to go unnoticed by all but the most thoughtful of people.

And maybe that is a good thing. I don't think any of us are in this for the praise. Being a true Man may not get you scores of girls in and of itself, but it will lead you to a better place in life. And the women you do get will be all that much more desirable.

Rock ****ing solid human beings. That is ****ing perfect. Represents all I want to be, haha.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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