"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Interesting article on "Manliness"

CarlitosWay

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I enjoy checking this site out for weight training/ nutrition advice and what not. They have a weekly article known as "atomic dog". They're full of humor, wit and some pretty cool insights from the writer.

I think it's well worth the read and belongs in here :) Enjoy.
http://www.tmuscle.com/portal_includes/articles/2009/09-atomicdog-035.html
Edit:list your thoughts, I for one think for the most part it encompasses what a dj should be.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Good article.

One thing I've noticed about being a man is that on the surface, it is a ****ing thankless job. It really is a deeper calling, one that slips beneath the surface and generally tends to go unnoticed by all but the most thoughtful of people.

And maybe that is a good thing. I don't think any of us are in this for the praise. Being a true Man may not get you scores of girls in and of itself, but it will lead you to a better place in life. And the women you do get will be all that much more desirable.

Rock ****ing solid human beings. That is ****ing perfect. Represents all I want to be, haha.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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