"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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interesting... american woman is jealous of her foreign competition

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bvbidd

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Getting a foreign women is like committing suicide. It's the way of a coward.
 

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I think it's a great idea. Simply weeds out societies insecure, AFC and cowardly men.
 

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Bvbidd said:
Getting a foreign women is like committing suicide. It's the way of a coward.
Why is it like commiting suicide? lol It's just about seeing what women from different cultures are like, and if they like you/you like them.

It's not like you owe anything to the women of the west.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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It's similar who feel that Americans should not date interracially be it because of bigotry or some false sense of loosing their cultural identity.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KillaCam said:
I think it's a great idea. Simply weeds out societies insecure, AFC and cowardly men.
The irony is thick -- in a country of immigrants.

Admittedly, some foreign chicks might be easier to bag, but many of them are also more womanly than the many fat, self-centered children that we legally call women.

Depending on your community, dating foreign women might be a smart move.


Say, would dating a Canadian be considered cowardly? Something tells me no.
 

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Bvbidd said:
Getting a foreign women is like committing suicide. It's the way of a coward.
I think you mispelled it, marrying an American woman will lead you to suicide after she takes all your money after the divorce! :D

Marrying a non-traditional american woman is the worst mistake a man can make. If you are going to marry an American woman make sure she is a country girl or has some moral values (religious). If you don't then you will be making a big mistake and might end up in the alarming divorce rate stats of America.
 

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yeah, you should get out into the world. You experience culture and other women. I even did that this summer and dumped my western gf because of all the drama and high maintenance. In my eyes, I like foreign women better than the ones here in the us. I was bored one night so i decided to look up this topic and share my thoughts with the sosuave community
 

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Did you guys read the site owner's reply? He did a pretty good job in not only supporting the practice but pointing out some obvious issues that the woman has.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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