"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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interesting... american woman is jealous of her foreign competition

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Getting a foreign women is like committing suicide. It's the way of a coward.
 

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I think it's a great idea. Simply weeds out societies insecure, AFC and cowardly men.
 

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Bvbidd said:
Getting a foreign women is like committing suicide. It's the way of a coward.
Why is it like commiting suicide? lol It's just about seeing what women from different cultures are like, and if they like you/you like them.

It's not like you owe anything to the women of the west.
 

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It's similar who feel that Americans should not date interracially be it because of bigotry or some false sense of loosing their cultural identity.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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KillaCam said:
I think it's a great idea. Simply weeds out societies insecure, AFC and cowardly men.
The irony is thick -- in a country of immigrants.

Admittedly, some foreign chicks might be easier to bag, but many of them are also more womanly than the many fat, self-centered children that we legally call women.

Depending on your community, dating foreign women might be a smart move.


Say, would dating a Canadian be considered cowardly? Something tells me no.
 

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Bvbidd said:
Getting a foreign women is like committing suicide. It's the way of a coward.
I think you mispelled it, marrying an American woman will lead you to suicide after she takes all your money after the divorce! :D

Marrying a non-traditional american woman is the worst mistake a man can make. If you are going to marry an American woman make sure she is a country girl or has some moral values (religious). If you don't then you will be making a big mistake and might end up in the alarming divorce rate stats of America.
 

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yeah, you should get out into the world. You experience culture and other women. I even did that this summer and dumped my western gf because of all the drama and high maintenance. In my eyes, I like foreign women better than the ones here in the us. I was bored one night so i decided to look up this topic and share my thoughts with the sosuave community
 

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Did you guys read the site owner's reply? He did a pretty good job in not only supporting the practice but pointing out some obvious issues that the woman has.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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