"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

interesting... american woman is jealous of her foreign competition

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Bvbidd

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 16, 2006
Messages
1,482
Reaction score
8
Getting a foreign women is like committing suicide. It's the way of a coward.
 

KillaCam

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 26, 2005
Messages
770
Reaction score
3
I think it's a great idea. Simply weeds out societies insecure, AFC and cowardly men.
 

MuayThai

Banned
Joined
Aug 14, 2005
Messages
311
Reaction score
7
Bvbidd said:
Getting a foreign women is like committing suicide. It's the way of a coward.
Why is it like commiting suicide? lol It's just about seeing what women from different cultures are like, and if they like you/you like them.

It's not like you owe anything to the women of the west.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
It's similar who feel that Americans should not date interracially be it because of bigotry or some false sense of loosing their cultural identity.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

whistler

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 4, 2004
Messages
633
Reaction score
5
Location
New York
KillaCam said:
I think it's a great idea. Simply weeds out societies insecure, AFC and cowardly men.
The irony is thick -- in a country of immigrants.

Admittedly, some foreign chicks might be easier to bag, but many of them are also more womanly than the many fat, self-centered children that we legally call women.

Depending on your community, dating foreign women might be a smart move.


Say, would dating a Canadian be considered cowardly? Something tells me no.
 

Joe The Homophobe

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 8, 2004
Messages
1,212
Reaction score
8
Location
USA
Bvbidd said:
Getting a foreign women is like committing suicide. It's the way of a coward.
I think you mispelled it, marrying an American woman will lead you to suicide after she takes all your money after the divorce! :D

Marrying a non-traditional american woman is the worst mistake a man can make. If you are going to marry an American woman make sure she is a country girl or has some moral values (religious). If you don't then you will be making a big mistake and might end up in the alarming divorce rate stats of America.
 

redspicyflag

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 29, 2006
Messages
654
Reaction score
6
Location
Wherever I please
yeah, you should get out into the world. You experience culture and other women. I even did that this summer and dumped my western gf because of all the drama and high maintenance. In my eyes, I like foreign women better than the ones here in the us. I was bored one night so i decided to look up this topic and share my thoughts with the sosuave community
 

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
Did you guys read the site owner's reply? He did a pretty good job in not only supporting the practice but pointing out some obvious issues that the woman has.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Top