"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Interested on "Girlfriend's" friend

Trance

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What do you guys make of this?

Went out for like 3 saturdays with my girl and a couple of her girlfriends. I started getting somewhat atracted by one of them (sarah).

One day my girl sends a message to sarah, and i got her number on my phone.
Couple of days ago i see her while driving, i see her and wave to her, and then latter i remember to send her a message saying hi and small chat.
Next day we exchange a couple of messages, she says she is at the beach with a couple ppl i know, i tell her i go out of work at time X and that if she's there i'll drop by. I get there a bit late when they are already leaving, we go for a cigar and since she had to leave she proposed to me and a girlfriend of hers to setup something for the night. She didnt mention my girl, only after i mentioned myself. Then i tell her i'd talk to her and convince her to go (so that i dont seem interested).
Latter that day (thursday), she sms's she is too tired, if we can go out tomorrow and if i can drive her home so that she can have a few drinks (cause she has car too)?

At this point i wonder if she wanted to setup for friday because she knew my girl would be working. I told her ok, it would be better for me cause i wouldnt work the next day.

Next day my girl talked with the other mutual friend of both that was also present when the sarah invited us both to go out, and tells me she thinks she is up to something and gets all jealous.

Anyway on friday night she didnt gave news.

Saturday i called, she told me she didnt had $ on her mobile. I told her i was goint out "alone" with couple of friends in the evening, and that we would go for a drink and then to the club or meet there at the club.
Saturday evening, and i send her a message telling her to drop by to the cofee shop i was. She didnt have $ to answer, but she did show up. But when she got there i was shooting some pool with a big friend of mine (a girl). She asked for my girl and a couple of the other girls we went out the previous saturdays, and i told her i didnt setup anything with them. Then she left and said we'd meet at the club.
I went somewhat late with my friends, didnt meet her there, who i saw there alone was a guy that i dont know if it was her boyfriend or not cause he's working at switzerland and seems like he was here this weekend.

I call on sunday (yesterday), i woke her up (at 20:00 lol) she says she didnt go to the club cause she got drunk and went home earlier. I tell her we'd setup something one of these night, and she sugests that night. I tell her a time, tell her i'd send a message to setup a place, and she says she'd charge her mobile with $ to answer. Latter that night when i gave her a ring she had her mobile off.

Btw, sarah beside being friend's to my girl, and thinks we're real boyfriends. Its weird all these flakes cause she didnt mention anything to my girl, send the messages and wanted to setup stuff, all in the back of my girl.
I'm not asking you guys about my girl, only about the other one. My girl and i are together for the sex, but she of course she doesnt know i'm up for other girls. For instance, i've been dating an ex of mine for about a month.

What do you guys think about this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think your girl has started to suspect you and "hired" sarah to prove that you're ****ing around.I bet if she (sarah) found you alone in any of the occasions she wouldn't bail that fast.I may be overanalyzing stuff but that's what it looks like to me.
 

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Nah, she hasnt cause she's too jealous to do that, and doesnt trust the other girl enough. I'm positive.

Now i'm chilling till i see her somewhere (being casual) or saturday comes and i setup something in a group and give her some sign to meet me somewhere alone.
 

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Maybe you shouldn't cheat on your girlfriend? Novel idea, I know.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DarkChaos said:
Maybe you shouldn't cheat on your girlfriend? Novel idea, I know.
Like i said

Trance said:
I'm not asking you guys about my girl, only about the other one. My girl and i are together for the sex
 
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