"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Interest levels Pook vs. Anti dump

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doinwork

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A recent post about girlfriend's and there interest levels: has brought me to dicussions that pook brought up to honor antidump. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=184182

The thing that's confusing for me is pook supports anti dumps theorys that if a girl doesn't show imediate interest, that you should never bother with her.

Also in the book of pook he talks about how when he became a "DonJuan" (not sure if he realy likes that word) He dated and swept girls off their feet that were never interested in them.

I have had girls in the past tell me that it would never happen with them. Down the road they were madly in love with me. My friends have doen this many times over.

i've seen succesful marriages come out of women rejected the man at first and he didn't give up.

So I am confused by these posts. any nput from the pros?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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there are no rules, only guidelines,,training wheels,personal experiences and points of view. but nobody wants to hear that.
 
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Probably more knowledge in Warrior's post then most long ones. such is life
 
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