"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Interest levels Pook vs. Anti dump

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doinwork

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A recent post about girlfriend's and there interest levels: has brought me to dicussions that pook brought up to honor antidump. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=184182

The thing that's confusing for me is pook supports anti dumps theorys that if a girl doesn't show imediate interest, that you should never bother with her.

Also in the book of pook he talks about how when he became a "DonJuan" (not sure if he realy likes that word) He dated and swept girls off their feet that were never interested in them.

I have had girls in the past tell me that it would never happen with them. Down the road they were madly in love with me. My friends have doen this many times over.

i've seen succesful marriages come out of women rejected the man at first and he didn't give up.

So I am confused by these posts. any nput from the pros?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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there are no rules, only guidelines,,training wheels,personal experiences and points of view. but nobody wants to hear that.
 
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Probably more knowledge in Warrior's post then most long ones. such is life
 
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