Interest Level Scale

[JustDoItAlways]

VeryBadGirl / AngelPagel , will you marry me? Just kidding, I know you're hooked up.

See guys, this is the kind of girl that you want and the type you should seek out. Just the right balances in every way.

VBG, you look very sexy right now. Thanks again.



[This message has been edited by JustDoItAlways (edited 06-28-2002).]

 

[Player69]

I think JustDoItAlways is getting a case of the one-itis on VeryBadGirl

Great posts though!!

Can you feel the love?

[This message has been edited by Player69 (edited 06-28-2002).]

 

[Player69]

Just so you know, I have changed my name to BigBallz.

 

[BigBallz]

Formerly known as Player69

 

[Contents]

The High School Version of this:
I dont personally think that an interest level of 20% on her part would be her thinking your a stalker, for there to be any % above 20, she must like you a bit,

so here is my theory, i work on the basis of -100 to 100 i.e. -100 to 0 is all the negative stuff and once it goes to even 1% theres a bit of interest, therefore... the interest level is in proportion to how likely she is to say yes, if you asked her out...you have to get above 50% interest level for her to think your "dateable" here is my scale and tell me what you think....

0-10% She is aware of you and thinks your slightly attractive, she might get on with you but there is no spark to it and you are more of an acquaintence or a friend
10-25%She thinks your somewhat attractive, possibly dateable, but she doesnt like you enough to make a move or put any real effort into it, if you ask her out she wont say yes at this point.
25-50% She likes the way you act and wouldnt rule you out but still needs something to push you over the edge. Often the friends category, a zone that will not be easy to get out of and if the interest level stays between 25-50% for too long, it will never go above that 50% barrier.
50-60% She is more than likely to go out with you if you ask her, but she still isnt totally convinced, she knows your attractive to an extent and thinks you could be boyfriend material but the job is by no means done
60-75% She is beginning to like you more, shows interest and generally you can see this in the way she acts. If the interest is in this zone when you first meet her, your going to succeed, cos if you play your cards right, it will only increase.
75-85% You are probably about to, or actually dating her, she shows high interest and the first signs of infatution
85-95% Infatution
95-100% "Love"

 

[IntermediateDonJuaner]

Player69,

Since you've found out how girls interest level works, can you please tell me how to read their interest level from time to time to keep track of what is happening?

Basically, how do we judge interest level? You've done a good job here and I am expecting something good from you here as well

 

[BigBallz]

Originally posted by IntermediateDonJuaner:
Player69,

Since you've found out how girls interest level works, can you please tell me how to read their interest level from time to time to keep track of what is happening?

Basically, how do we judge interest level? You've done a good job here and I am expecting something good from you here as well

Sure, Ill see what I can type out later. For now, I am going to get drunk and play with explosives since its 4th of July!

 

[Player69]

Im not sure what ever happend to my bigballz account, so ill stick with the player69 one

 

[-Boogerman-]

This seem too complicated. I don't know if any other feel the same, comparing your relationship or interrest by a girl on a scale doesn't feel right. For example, I once met a girl that would qualify for the 20-30 % she insulted me and I insulted her, she almost raped me later . Somehow I knew she was attraced to me, the eye contact, the sudden smiles sometimes, and I was attraced to her. I say, trust your gut more than a simple statistic sheet. Only you know how to improve your relationship.

I must however say that you did a good work for the persons who is not like me; and find this stuff usefull (I am sure most people).

 

[cestmoi]

Ooops. I've just reviewed your scale and uh-oh! I got alot of chicks in the -50% zone. This is due to the period when i was still learning about DJ-in and ****ed up alot of chances. The problem is: is this forever? Once you get in the lower percentages can you ever come out? Here's a thread i just made for discussing that:

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=18877

I stand something like this:

1 in the 80-89 Love category
About 20 in the 60-69 Like category
Five in the 40-49 Indifferent category
About 10 in the 30-39 Anoyed category
And 1 in the 20-29 Resentful category

What are your stats guys?

P.S

I'm in college. And 90% of the girls come from there

 

[Player69]

As a generalized rule, it's better to move on when its below 50%. I am not saying its imposable to get it back up, but saying that won't put you in the propor mind frame, and is often not worth the time and effort for a "chance". Ironicly, the best chance you have with a girl that dropped below 50% is to completly forget about her, and move on.

As for Boogermans statement, I have gotten girls really pissed at me, but in a flirty kind of way. It is possable to have girls anoyed at you, yet have high interest level.. sometimes it even helps. Im slightly to destracted right now to explane the whole thing... I may come back to it later.

 

[-Boogerman-]

When things are hard to explain, doesn't that mean that a person has not grasped it fully yet or is not aware of things? Would like you to explain what you mean Player69, I am interrested.

You may feel that I am being insultive, I just think that people should develop a feel for the interrest level. Instead of using statistics.

 

[cestmoi]

Originally posted by Player69

It is possable to have girls anoyed at you, yet have high interest level.. sometimes it even helps.

I think i have two cases like that. They pretend they don't even wanna talk to me yet they can't seem to take their eyes off me. They get all red if they see me flirty with another chick.

But how do you know if they do have a high IL and are putting up an act?

Or it doesn't matter since you should as you said completely forget them so that they would run back to you if they wanted to.

 

[Ricky]

This all needs to be taken with a grain of salt.

Don't worry too much about reading her interest level, the only time to be concerned is when you need to cut your losses or when her interest is borderline, but when you practice DJ tactics you shouldn't have this problem.

 

[Mack Of All Trades]

Highly insightful. Good job player.

 

[Nocturnal]

bump

 

[WatchMeWalk]

This should be in the Bible. I would never say that lightly.

 

[Player69]

Havn't been on in a while so im just here bumping it

 

[HuuBinh]

Player,
How can a girl have any interest level in a guy if she feels annoyed, resentful, paranoid, or fearful?

30-39 Anoyed
20-29 Resentful
10-19 Paranoid
0-9 Fearful

 

[cestmoi]

Originally posted by HuuBinh
Player,
How can a girl have any interest level in a guy if she feels annoyed, resentful, paranoid, or fearful?

30-39 Anoyed
20-29 Resentful
10-19 Paranoid
0-9 Fearful

Will first of all a girl can be annoyed and/or resentful of you and have interest in you. Hell she might be in love with you. It depends on what caused that emotion.

Fearfull though could never be anything close to interest.

Secondly, the scale seems to be half-half. The upper half 50%> covers positive interest and the bottom half <50% covers negative interest.