“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Interest = Bad - ?

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Bvbidd

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Why would showing interest be a bad thing?

Do you really think a chick is conciously thinking to herself when you show interest that she does not like you because of that?

Mabye for everybody who showed interest and things went bad they were never good to begin with and the second you became attached she was never actually attached but just seeing you as potential or just a friend.

Have you ever thought of this? That she never actually liked you in the first place and that once she could tell you like her that she bails because of this, not because she does not like guys who like her.

Does this not make more sense?

I can't belive otherwise, that girls just don't like guys who like them. That goes against reality.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Showing interest is kinda like surfing.

When you get it right, you get up and the wave pushes you along, but if you get too eager and get up before the wave is ready you'll wipe out, and if you're too late, the wave will pass you by.

Show a girl too much interest at first, before she's had enough time to develop an interest in you, and you'll come across as needy and desperate, but also, if you show a lack of interest she'll assume as much and move on.

I think the "don't show interest" thing is for the guys who will get shot down if they come on too strongly without approaching her the right way.

Personally, if I'm interested, i'll show it but I'll also do things that demonstrate my lack of "need" for her. There's a big difference between want and need. girls want guys that want them, not need them.
 
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Interest is a good thing... otherwise you would never get a girl. But the amount of interest you show relative to the amount she shows is important because you can have a few scenarios:

1. You show more than her. (Leaning toward her dumping you)
2. Equal interest.
3. She shows more than you. (Leaning toward you dumping her)

If you show too much interest too quickly and more than her it makes her believe you aren't as used to receiving this kind of attention from girls and aren't as valuable. If you show less interest than her, she can really start to wonder what's so special about you and the other girls you've dated. Another problem arises when you show tons of interest and don't make a move quickly enough, but that's another story.
 
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