"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hey DJ's,

how's everything? I just thought of an idea, might appeal to some and obviously not to others.

WHAT? I create a journal that is followed and the outcome decided by you guys.

WHO? I have this girl lined up, HB8. She is interested and so am I. For more info on her see below.

HOW? At each step in the relationship, you DJ's and I give options and post a poll online at this site. You DJ's vote for what I should do. I follow the most popular vote, and document online the outcome.

WHEN? Starting from now.

WHERE? irrellevant but just so you know, Sydney, Australia.

like I said this isn't for everyone. But if you want to play, lets play.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Nah, too many threads, make it like an FR. Title it:
INT: HB8 From Bar

or whatever is more appropriate, and then post about your progress and we critique. Besides, the voting is pretty pointless. See what advice seems best here and look for respected DJs.
 

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ABOUT HER: I think she's cute. Id say probably, 6.5 minimum for her face, just a bit better than average. very natural, ie no make up at all, symmetrical and in proportion, nice clear skin too. she is half Maltese (think Italian) and half Indonesian. 9 for her body, she is very petite, plus nice height (her 5'7, me 5'10), 9 for her personality/education, bubbly and a student at uni.

HOW DID WE MEET? 3 weeks ago. I was doing summer school at uni, after class saw a mate just chilling with this girl. We get introduced, im all ****y and funny. she already stops talking to her friend and starts talking to me.
Anyway we are all ready to go home so we go to the bus stop together, then me and her realise that we are both going to the same destination. so we catch the train together, flirt almost the whole way home (40 mins).
ok so halfway into this she gets a text message, and she is like oh my god this guy picked me up in the library the other day, and shows me the message. to my shock it was my mate's, a very good mate's, phone number. I am in shock, and back off, as i dont want to go into my friends territory, so i DONT get her number.

2 weeks ago. im heading to uni, and accidentally, we bump into each other. flirt, refer her to a job, get to uni and say by.

1 week ago. see her at my work, getting an interview. mean while im shocked cause, i dont know, like kinda bumping into her 3 seperate times.

anyway, today, 6pm, i get a text message from her it says ''hey TTAG its HB8, im now on my way home from my first day of induction at job, it looks very promising! thanks heaps!I owe you a drink or dinner...''

i didnt even give her my number, so she went and asked one of the 2 friends i previously mentioned. so what do i do now? check out the poll to vote.

Vote Here
 

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Originally posted by MVPlaya
Nah, too many threads, make it like an FR. Title it:
INT: HB8 From Bar

or whatever is more appropriate, and then post about your progress and we critique. Besides, the voting is pretty pointless. See what advice seems best here and look for respected DJs.
like I said this isn't for everyone.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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